Pain is Pleasure- From the Blog archive of Philadelphia Fem Dom Mistress Isadora

This is from my blog archive. This is from October 2014.

I have a pain slut who I love to session with. He’s very open minded and loves when I push his limits. Inflicting pain on him puts a smile on My face and that is what brings him pleasure. He can’t always receive marks which is fine because I can get creative. For instance we had a short notice session not too long ago. He just couldn’t stay away. He’s such a loyal slave I had no problem meeting up with him on such short notice plus we always have a great time together. Since I couldn’t give him a thorough beating, I had to come up with other options. One of my favorite ways to inflict pain without leaving marks is electo. We have a great hand held electro shock gadget at the studio. It’s quite intense. I love having a slave tied to the cross facing the wall letting him think I’m going to seduce him. Then out of no where shock him with it. Now this slave is quite the pain slut so when I shock him with it and almost bring him to his knees, I am quite a happy Domina. I also find layering effective for those who can not receive marks but want an intense session. Things like tying up balls, then feeding the rope through the hook in the ceiling and adding weights to the end. Layer that with a tens unit on the cock, nipple clamps and maybe some vibration on those stretched out balls.This makes for some very interesting pain sensations with no marks. Another great one I like with minimal marks is after some piercing play but before releasing my pet from bondage, squeezing a little lemon juice over the freshly pierced cock. I’m laughing just thinking about it. Now even with slaves who can receive marks I like to incorporate activities like this. Keeps it fresh and unexpected. I think is is important to experiment with sensations for the pain sluts. Just when they think I can’t push them further, I add a layer of something unexpected and I hear them begging for mercy.

Fine young things- Philadelphia Dominatrix Mistress Isadora Blog Archives

This post was made April 2014

I have recently had sessions with a few very young, complete newbies to the world of BDSM. I think because of their age they were well accustomed to Google searches, so they were quite articulate as far as their interests and hard limits. I advise newbies to search the internet as it is a plethora of information.  It seems that at first they are interested in one thing, then when they come back they have other interests they would like to explore. Some of the activities they thought they would enjoy, turn out not to be what  they are really into.  I also introduce them to some of my interests. I like how open they are to new things. It’s so cute when they try to impress me and want to be sure they are pleasing me. I usually start off slow with them because they are not always sure of their limits. It’s funny when I start something new like electro and begin lightly so I can gauge how intense they can go. I hear “Oh Mistress this is nothing”. I smile and then crank the unit all the way up. When they scream I laugh. I tell them they should just wait to see what they can take before opening their mouth. Obviously I know what I’m doing. They usually learn their lesson which is to leave things in my hands.