I have done couples sessions in the past, but this one stood out.
Many times, it’s the man who wants the session and is trying to book. He wants me to teach his wife how to domme him. It rarely works out. I have also had sessions with couples where I dominate the woman while he watches.
This couples BDSM session in Philadelphia was different for a few reasons. For one, the wife contacted me. They both had no issue following my vetting and booking protocol and made the entire process easy from the beginning.
More importantly, this was genuinely something they wanted to experience together as a couple.
She Booked a Femdom Birthday Surprise for Him
I was contacted by his wife about arranging a surprise BDSM session for his birthday. She already dommes him when they play together and wanted to give him the experience of playing with a professional Dominatrix while she watched and hopefully picked up some erotic inspiration to take home with her.
I loved that.
She shared that as a couple they enjoy pushing the envelope, and she found the idea of watching him experience a professional Femdom session intriguing for both of them. This wasn’t simply his fantasy that she had agreed to come along for. She was excited about the experience too.
That dynamic made a huge difference.
A Couples BDSM Experience in Philadelphia
They arrived at my private Philadelphia studio for the first part of his birthday celebration in the city, having some kinky fun before checking into their hotel.
While he was preparing for his session, she and I started talking about gear. She has quite a collection herself, so we shared notes about toys and some of my favorite pieces.
I always enjoy talking about BDSM gear with fellow Dommes.
She ultimately decided that she wanted to be the voyeur for the session. She was there to watch, enjoy herself and see what I decided to do with him.
So, I was free to do as I pleased.
Impact Play, Flogging and Single-Tail Whipping
I started with him spread eagle, his wrists secured in cuffs hanging from the ceiling.
The impact play began with a flogging before progressing to one of my favorite pieces, my slave whip. He was really enjoying himself, but he had two women to impress—not only me, but his Domme watching.
They already incorporate impact play into their own Femdom dynamic, so he was accustomed to the sensation and handled himself well.
I decided to introduce him to my single-tail whip.
He handled that well too.
I wouldn’t be surprised if she eventually adds a single tail to the collection they have at home.
CBT and Electro Play
From there, we explored some CBT.
I wanted to introduce him to electro play, so I chose one of my copper electro devices. It combines several sensations at once: the device crushes the balls while also adding weight and delivering electrical stimulation.
For someone who enjoys CBT and electro torture, it is a wonderful combination.
It also gave his wife another type of play to watch and consider adding to their own adventures together.
What Made This Couples Femdom Session So Much Fun
This session was so much fun for everyone involved because both members of the couple were actually into it.
They came together as a couple to have fun with a professional Dominatrix. She already had her own Femdom relationship with him, was curious about different equipment and techniques, and was genuinely excited to watch him play. He was able to enjoy being dominated while knowing his own Domme was right there watching everything.
I enjoyed their dynamic. I enjoyed her enthusiasm. I enjoyed talking with her about gear. And from the very beginning, they respected my protocol and made the entire booking process easy.
For me, that is what made this couples session different.
A couples Femdom experience doesn’t have to be about teaching an uninterested partner how to dominate someone. Sometimes a couple already enjoys BDSM together and simply wants to push the envelope, experience something different, explore new types of play, or celebrate an occasion in a way that is very much their own.
This couple came to Philadelphia to celebrate a birthday and made a session with a professional Domme part of their celebration.
I’m glad they did.
For couples who already share an interest in Femdom, BDSM, bondage, impact play, CBT or other forms of kinky play, a private session can be a very different experience to enjoy together—and perhaps provide a little inspiration to take home afterward.
